Writing our thoughts and feelings down on paper, or describing a
troubling feeling or incident with pen in hand, helps us to better
understand our actions and reactions in a way that is sometimes not
revealed clearly by simply thinking or talking about them. When we put
our difficulties down on paper, it becomes easier to see situations from
a new perspective and perhaps better discern any necessary action.
Writing can help us identify the assets and liabilities that help or
hurt our recovery. Journaling and writing can prove to be a valuable
means to identify and express our feelings in a safe and healthy way. It
can be a first step to sharing these feelings with a therapist, sponsor,
or friend, for the first time. Writing things down can help us untangle
our thinking and counter self-defeating thoughts with realistic counter
One writing tool that many recovering people find helpful it to write
a gratitude list. When they are experiencing mild depression or anxiety,
feeling bored, irritable, or frustrated, they purposefully sit and write
out a list of things they are grateful for. It can be difficult to do
when they are not feeling happy so sometimes they use the alphabet.
Thinking of something that starts with the letter A, and so on. We can
be grateful for really simple things like apples, air, or animals at
first. Some letters, like Z, and X, are more difficult and can be
skipped. Eventually they find their attention has been shifted from an
uncomfortable or negative space to a more positive and self-loving one.
Some people get in the habit of listing a few things they are grateful
for every day in their journal. Developing this "Attitude of
Gratitude" has long been a staple of Twelve Step recovery.
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